Love and Relatiosnhips

I am not sure if I have heard a single person say college is worse then highschool.

It is like a silent agreement highschool sucks more then college, or even an actual job, probably depending on the job as well.

Worse than a job. I get paid to work

My problem with girls is this:

I'm never sure if they like me or not. Sometimes I think a girl likes me, but then I see that girl "flirting" with another guy and I wonder if she don't like me or just wants to be friends. Or, she stops talking to me and I wonder if she don't like me any more, but then suddenly seems to be interested in me and makes it seem as though she likes me.

Long story short-- I am confused.

I attract a few girls, but I don't know if it is that they have no one else, as they... how could I say this... Nope, wouldn't want to offend them.

BurningCake wrote:

My problem with girls is this:

I'm never sure if they like me or not. Sometimes I think a girl likes me, but then I see that girl "flirting" with another guy and I wonder if she don't like me or just wants to be friends. Or, she stops talking to me and I wonder if she don't like me any more, but then suddenly seems to be interested in me and makes it seem as though she likes me.

Long story short-- I am confused.

I can actually recognize myself in that.

BTW, For some days now i noticed a girl looking at me at times, and she likes to talk when she gets the oppurtunity. She is also really cute. And she got a great curvy shape! She may like me.

Glasspinne wrote:

BurningCake wrote:

My problem with girls is this:

I'm never sure if they like me or not. Sometimes I think a girl likes me, but then I see that girl "flirting" with another guy and I wonder if she don't like me or just wants to be friends. Or, she stops talking to me and I wonder if she don't like me any more, but then suddenly seems to be interested in me and makes it seem as though she likes me.

Long story short-- I am confused.

I can actually recognize myself in that.

BTW, For some days now i noticed a girl looking at me at times, and she likes to talk when she gets the oppurtunity. She is also really cute. And she got a great curvy shape! She may like me.

Lucky. I'm very confused about my situation. Why can't I read minds...?

BurningCake wrote:

My problem with girls is this:

I'm never sure if they like me or not. Sometimes I think a girl likes me, but then I see that girl "flirting" with another guy and I wonder if she don't like me or just wants to be friends. Or, she stops talking to me and I wonder if she don't like me any more, but then suddenly seems to be interested in me and makes it seem as though she likes me.

Long story short-- I am confused.

It is all about body language. I know girls who's very personality is flirtatious, meaning, they seeminginly flirt with everyone. And girls flirt even when they do not like you. For some girls, it is just a game to flirt, then drop the guy. So beware that.


Now flirting can give away if a girl likes you, but body language also works. Because most body language is subconcious, it is like a girl cannot help but do certain mannerisms when they are in a real flirty mood with a guy they like. Of course, girls can also fake that, or not do any of that.

So yes, girls are confusing sometimes.

The way she stands, the way she talks, the way she stares, all of that can show you if she likes you.

Does she play with her hair when she is talking to you, sometimes it is not real obvious.

When talking to you, is her feet and body point right at you?

Does she... Here we go... Giggle a lot talking to you, not body language, but a give away on a girls feelings sometimes.

Whenever you are talking to her, does she copy your movements? This one is weird, but apparently as research goes, boys and girls repeat each others mannerisms when they like each other. So for instance, you are talking and your hands are waving around, and when she talks, she does something similar. Not making fun of you, but literally adopted that mannerism.

Just some food for thought, there are tons and tons of more ways to know if a girl likes you. One obvious one for me is the giggle one, the girl laughs all the time, she is constantly joking with me. A girl did that to me once, I didn't really know she was even flirting with me. I joked back at her, and later my mom was asking if I liked her. My mom, believe it or not, has really helped show me how to know if a girl likes me or not. Moms being girls after all, they have some knowledge when it comes to flirting with guys, or otherwise you would not exist right now.